Jennifer Brown Banks stops by today to share her wit and wisdom as only she can. I trust her words will encourage you as they have me. :)
My Life as a Metaphor
How I Became “The Little Engine That Could!”
(And you can too)
By: Jennifer Brown Banks
I’ve always been known to “dance to a beat of a different drummer.”
So, it stands to reason that my blogging approach would follow suit.
Initially,
I had some false starts. I used the direction that other popular
Bloggers before me had ventured, as a navigational “G.P.S.” system of
sorts. But, doing so caused a few detours.
Though I
studied their work, remembered their advice, and sought to emulate their
success, I realized that the journey I was to embark upon had to be
mapped out for the most part, by me. After assessing my options, I decided upon the road less traveled.
Little did I know that my story would become symbolic of “The Little Engine that Could.”
Here’s why…
I
was smaller in size than many of the other Bloggers in my niche; yet, I
felt just as compelled to share my message and my gifts.
I
believed that power was not defined by size, but by impact. I didn’t
allow myself to be intimidated. When I sought to guest post around the
blogosphere, (as the experts advised), I targeted award-winning sites
and famous folks: Pro Blogger, Men With Pens, Daily Blog Tips, and the
Well-Fed Writer. They all gave me the green light and ultimately
accepted my submissions. Though I was a small player, I managed to have
my work presented on some pretty major stages.
The
moral of the story here: You can too. In the words of Eleanor
Roosevelt, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
I didn’t travel in the fast lane.
My
blog’s pace was a bit slow, but steady; the growth was organic. There
were no tricks, no gimmicks, no give-aways to get people to sign up. I
merely tried to add value to the blogging community. I interacted with
my readers, and I kept moving forward; even though at times I felt
overlooked and passed up.
The moral of the story here: Blogging is a journey, not a destination. Keep chugging along.
I “spouted” in an authentic way.
Political
correctness aside, I shared my own personal truths: whether it was
about my relationship with chocolate, or my relationship with God. My
views didn’t always mirror the majority, but they always reflected what
was in my heart and based upon my (humble) experience.
The moral of the story here: In a world of far too many phonies, avoid “lip syncing”; develop your own true writer’s “voice.”
I said
no to SEO.
According
to the experts, without Search Engine Optimization, my Blog would be as
invisible as a woman trying to get her fellow‘s attention during the
Super Bowl. Still, without it, folks have managed to find me, and I’ve
garnered some unexpected attention along the way.
The recognition includes…but is not limited to:
*
Sybil Chavis, at Possibility of Today, (and a Harvard Graduate)
recognized me in her “60 of the Best Minds in the
Blogosphere.”
* Blog World featured me in their “16 Brilliant Bloggers” Series.
* I was selected in the “Power 100” compilation of the Best Blogs for Modern Writers in 2013 by Livehacked.com.
* And recently my site was chosen as one of the Top 25 Writing Blogs by Positive Writer.
The moral of the story here:
Sometimes we have to be our own designated “expert.” Trust our gut.
We
must chart a course that takes into consideration our goals, our
strengths and weaknesses, our lifestyle, and our own personal dreams.
It’s the only way to stay on track, gain ground, and go the distance!
Are you on board?
Jennifer Brown Banks is a veteran freelance writer, ghost writer and pro blogger. Her Blog, Pen and Prosper, was recently recognized by Livehacked.com, among “The Power 100”---the best sites for modern writers in 2013.
How about it, are you on board with Jennifer?
Happy writing,
Karen
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The winner of the chocolate giveaway is Keith Wynn. Congratulations Keith! Thanks to everyone who stopped by!